Wives have the responsibility of being discreet, chaste and keeping the home for their husbands, yet if you suspect your wife cheating on you there are certain behaviors and odd habits you should keep an eye out for.
1. She stops making eye contact.
1. She’s been missing a lot
She’s been ignoring you and your spouse, citing work-related functions to attend instead. While this could be the case, it could also mean she’s out with new people without telling either one of you about them and doesn’t want to get caught.
Everybody experiences moody phases, but a sudden shift in your wife’s attitude could be a telltale sign she is cheating on you. She might begin discussing an alternative future without you and wearing clothes which don’t fit properly, like tight bras or too-short skirts.
Be wary if her phone and computer history is completely blank, as this could be an indicator that she has been hiding something from you. Perhaps she has deleted activity to avoid keeping you informed, or she might be keeping receipts that do not match with where she claims they’ve made purchases.
2. She’s been spending a lot of time with other people
If she seems to spend more and more time out and about with her friends than you expected, this could be an indicator that she’s cheating on you. She may start avoiding spending time with you altogether while making excuses about going out with them for coffee or movies.
An adulterous woman will always seek an excuse to be away from you, such as work commitments or social obligations. She may even start making more frequent work trips than expected.
Women will likely become more concerned with their appearance, spending a greater portion of their money on new clothes and cosmetics as a sure sign they are trying to impress someone else. Smelling different is another clear indication they may have been imitating another scent.
3. She’s been spending a lot of money
If your wife has recently started purchasing new clothing and other items without wearing them around you, this could be an indicator that she may be cheating. Cheaters tend to purchase expensive pieces for themselves while leaving older partners out in the cold; this can create tension within marriages. Therefore, it is crucial that this be kept in mind and be considered.
Signs that she might be cheating can include sudden changes to her schedule; perhaps spending more time with a potential new lover and stopping coming home at her usual time each night.
Keep a close eye on her credit card statements and look for any unexplained purchases. Consider hiring a private detective or gathering together a group of trusted friends to follow her when she’s not home; this will give you additional evidence of her behavior – though be sure to do it discreetly, lest she suspect anything!
4. She’s been talking about a future that doesn’t involve you
If your wife appears preoccupied with another romantic partner, and starts talking about plans without you in them, this could be a telltale sign she’s planning to cheat on you.
As soon as it becomes obvious that your spouse is cheating, it is essential to recognize the signs. Without the evidence to back up your concerns, they could easily dismiss them as fantasies of your imagination.
Although your wife may have changed her lifestyle to accommodate a new lover, this may not always be true. Many people who cheat simply want something new in their lives – for instance, spending more time at the gym may simply reflect an increased confidence about herself and her body.
Track her reactions when receiving phone calls or texts; if she seems especially pleased or is showing excitement when receiving these notifications, this may indicate that it could be someone new she’s texting with.
5. She’s been talking about a new job
A woman discussing new jobs could be a telltale sign she’s cheating. Cheaters tend to become dissatisfied with their current employment and seek opportunities elsewhere; additionally, this may be seen as an attempt by some women seeking an avenue out from under a cheating spouse.
Cheating wives often need to justify their need for privacy by claiming they need additional space at work – this may mean working overtime hours or weekends. When this is happening, it is crucial that questions are asked and their bank account checked for suspicious withdrawals.
As well, it’s wise to monitor her showering habits. If she tends to take a shower immediately upon returning home from being out late, this may be a telltale sign that she’s sleeping with someone else and doesn’t wish for you to disturb their restful slumber.
6. She’s been talking about a new relationship
Increasing conversations between your wife and new, seemingly male friends could be a telltale sign that she’s cheating. She may seem reluctant to reveal more details of them to you or show signs of strange behaviour toward them, which you find confusing.
Signs that she no longer trusts you can include not confiding in you as before and spending money without telling you about it, which may indicate infidelity; also, spending it on new lasting relationships without using joint accounts may also be an indicator.